Navigating a world marred by lies can feel like a never-ending tug-of-war between truth and deception, especially when it disrupts the peace within our blended families. This post explores the all-too-familiar struggle of untangling a child's web of fibs, offering practical insights to redefine focus from merely confronting lies to cultivating an environment where truth is nurtured. Learn how documenting reality, avoiding unnecessary confrontations, and setting an example of honesty can transform this challenging landscape into one of growth and healing. Engage with strategies that prioritize safety and understanding, reassuring that with patience and faith, any storm of dishonesty can be weathered. Join the conversation to uncover how you can find peace amidst the chaos and become part of a community championing truth and trust.
Read more...AS CHRISTIANS WE DON’T SIMPLY WANT BEHAVIORS TO BE MANAGED, WE WANT HEARTS TO BE TRANSFORMED AND LIVES TO BE TRANSFORMED.
We can’t do that on our own because we aren’t God, but we can be tools that God uses in the lives of our children… when we don’t overstep our bounds.
And the accountability traps that I see adoptive moms falling into (and fall into myself) can hinder rather than help our children in the transformation of becoming self-accountable.
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