{part 2}
Last episode covered part one of this unilateral shift, the first in a series of three shifts that Iâm talking about throughout this month of April when Iâm recording these episodes, so if you have not yet heard part one, you might wanna go back and listen to that episode and otherwise, letâs dive in where we left offâŚ
Last episode covered part one of this unilateral shift, the first in a series of three shifts that Iâm talking about throughout this month of April when Iâm recording these episodes, so if you have not yet heard part one, you might wanna go back and listen to that episode and otherwise, letâs dive in where we left offâŚ
ACCEPTANCE OVER ACCOUNTABILITY
One of the most transformative shifts a Christian mother can make is moving away from the conventional lens of personally holding our teens accountable for their problem behaviors towards a stance of acceptance. Acceptance doesnât mean you like or agree with their choices, or approve problem behaviors.
Read more...UNILATERAL SHIFT #1 of 3 â
NEW VIEW ON PROBLEM BEHAVIORS
Discover how a shift toward an acceptance lens vs an accountability lens can change the way you view problem behaviors.
A NEW BEGINNING: EMBRACING ACCEPTANCE FOR A MORE BALANCED, PEACEFUL HOME
Dealing with Defiance⌠DisrespectâŚDangerous & Destructive behaviors?
Adoptive moms often find ourselves navigating an intricate maze of emotions and behaviors that can leave us feeling overwhelmed and overstressedâŚand seeking solutions to manage all of this, often through lenses of accountability and control/counter-control.
Do you feel like youâre constantly on the defensive? Having accusations flung at you on what seems like a daily basis? From big accusations from the outside to constant smaller accusations inside the household holding you responsible for, well, everything!
This used to be me. So I know how it feels. And itâs important for us to discern whatâs truly our responsibility and to own up to it when weâve missed the mark.
ITâS IMPORTANT TO IDENTIFY MISPLACED GUILT & BLAME THAT YOU AS AN ADOPTIVE MOM MAY FACE, BUT NOT ALWAYS TO STRIKE OUT IN DEFENSIVENESS.
We have a little booklet from our Sunday school class made up of verses submitted by different members in the class; one member submitted this verse: Isaiah 54:17 âno weapon forged against you will prevail, and he will refute every tongue that accuses you. âThis is the heritage of the servants of the Lord, and this is their vindication from me,â declares the Lordâ
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