In the often turbulent world of adoptive and blended families, dealing with defiance or dysfunction can leave you searching for effective strategies, but one popular approach might not be as helpful as it seems. While the "gray rock" method promises to diffuse conflict by staying detached, it could unintentionally create emotional barriers that hinder healing and connection in your home.
Discover a gentler alternative that emphasizes calm engagement, loving boundaries, and faith-based tools to foster deeper relationships without shutting down. By exploring these insights, you'll uncover how prioritizing empathy and spiritual guidance can transform challenging interactions into opportunities for growth.
This approach invites you to rethink family dynamics in a way that builds security and trust, making it a must-read for any second mom navigating these complexities.
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“BECAUSE I CANNN…!!”
I vividly remember those words coming from my teenage daughter as I questioned her about her motivation for something she had done.
Not the words of someone who is open to a reflective dialog or reasoned conversation.
And that was that.
MOM ROLE QUESTION:
When you think about your mom role I want you to ask yourself — and you can journal about this and pray over it but ask yourself — What do you realistically want your mom role to be like, and what do you think is standing in the way?
I’d like you to get a notebook, journal or pad of paper for a journaling exercise today about how you envision your role as mom in the current season or the season that’s right around the corner. What obstacles are you currently running up against?
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