A message from God
One Sunday morning at Worship Service the key verse was Psalm 46:1. I’d heard it before and nodded in agreement. “Yes, I’m doing better to keep a Sabbath rest day, making progress but I’m not being legalistic about it.”
I heard it again in a song on the radio, again that night at my son’s Church, and again it popped up on my phone’s Bible app. When God repeatedly tells me something, I’ve learned to pay attention. Am I missing something here?
“Be still, and know that I am God.” – Psalm 46:1
How can busy, adoptive or step‑moms like me carve out those quiet moments without adding another hour‑long meeting to an already overflowing schedule? Or when I do, am I stilling myself enough?
As my kids were growing up it often seemed Sundays were the busiest, most exhausting days of the week. I’m now (again) recommitting to keeping Saturday as my personal day of rest…even as the world around me doesn’t seem to acknowledge or respect it. Not to get into a theological debate. Regardless of whether you choose Saturday or Sunday (or Monday) as your day of rest, there are challenges to maintaining those quiet, restful time blocks. I didn’t want to add to those challenges for myself or for any of the moms in what would become The Second Mom Collective.
I wanted something that would work with my own limitations and protect my work-rest rhythm, while doing the same for the moms I was seeking to support.
The Search for a Better Way
Over the years I’ve tried every “solution” that promised order: elaborate planners, time-sucking webinars, even apps that demanded daily check‑ins. Each one felt like a new layer of commitment—something that required me to add time instead of freeing it.
What I realized was that the most effective help didn’t come from a longer to‑do list. It came from micro‑moments—short, intentional practices that could be slipped into the rhythm of a day already in motion, and incorporated into routines that honor the work-rest rhythm that brings steadiness and renewal rather than overwhelm and burnout.
That insight began to shape a new kind of community, one that would honor three truths I’ve recognized:
- Our time is finite. A mother’s day is already packed with meals, school runs, homework, and the invisible labor of keeping her home (and herself) emotionally healthy.
- Demands on our schedules can feel intrusive. With everything moms already have to juggle, it’s easy to put off even helpful things like coaching which may feel like another time demand.
- Our faith is the anchor. Scripture isn’t just a weekend read; it’s a source of daily strength that can be woven through our days.
The Birth of The Second Mom Collective
Those three truths underlay a modest blueprint—a six‑week fellowship that leans heavily on asynchronous learning and faith‑centered micro‑practices. I didn’t set out to create a massive online course; I wanted a gentle, flexible space where a mom could press “play” while she’s folding laundry, or read a quick worksheet or mini-guide during a car ride, and feel the presence of God guiding her next step in these moments of stillness.
Here’s a glimpse of what that looks like, told in the language of everyday life rather than marketing jargon:
1. Five‑Minute Lessons that Fit Anywhere
Each week I record a short video (no longer than five minutes). The lesson starts with a brief Scripture, followed by a single, practical idea—like a “Grace‑Reset” breathing pause before the morning rush. You can watch it while the coffee brews, during a school pickup, or even while the kids are playing in the backyard.
2. Printable Maps for the Moments That Matter
Stress often feels like a vague cloud. To make it tangible, I provide a Stress‑Trigger Map and a Routine Planner. You spend a few minutes marking the exact times you feel tension, then you receive a simple, five‑minute action you can try immediately—a short prayer, a quick gratitude note, or a Scripture‑tagged chore that turns a task into worship.
3. A Private Sisterhood Forum
There’s a type of loneliness that comes with adoption and step‑parenting. 
In the discussion forum, you’ll find only moms who share those experiences. It’s a place for quick prayer requests, a “what worked today?” win, or a gentle reminder that you’re not navigating this alone.
In the discussion forum, you’ll find only moms who share those experiences. It’s a place for quick prayer requests, a “what worked today?” win, or a gentle reminder that you’re not navigating this alone.4. Personalized, Scripture‑Anchored Check‑Ins
Twice a month you can send a brief note (no more than a couple of paragraphs) describing a current challenge. Within 48 hours I reply with a personalized, Scripture‑based response—no Zoom, no lecture, just a written prayer and a practical suggestion that fits your situation.
5. The Faith‑Fueling Routine Pack (a small bonus)
When you join, you receive a printable bundle of short devotionals, prayer prompts, and Scripture‑tagged chore charts. It’s designed so you can start feeling God’s peace the very first day, even before the formal lessons begin.
Why This Feels Different
If you’ve ever sat through a two‑hour webinar and walked away feeling more exhausted than enlightened, you’ll recognize the contrast. The Collective isn’t about adding another commitment; it’s about re‑aligning the ones you already have with God’s rhythm.
Imagine this scenario:
- Morning: While the kettle whistles, you watch a five‑minute video on “Grace‑Reset Breathing.” You inhale, exhale, and whisper Psalm 5:3, “In the morning, O LORD, hear my voice.”
- Mid‑day: You pull out the Stress‑Trigger Map during a lunch break, notice that “waiting for the kids to finish homework” spikes your anxiety, and you apply the suggested five‑minute prayer prompt.
- Evening: In the private forum, a sister shares a quick tip about turning bedtime stories into a short, Scripture‑focused dialogue. You try it, and the kids settle faster, giving you a few extra minutes of quiet.
- Weekly: You send a short note about a lingering conflict with your step‑child, and receive a personalized reply that points you to Ephesians 4:2—“Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.”
All of these moments happen without a scheduled Zoom call, without a looming deadline, and without sacrificing the precious time you already have.
A Gentle Invitation
If the idea of a low‑pressure, faith‑filled fellowship resonates, I’d love for you to get on the waiting list. It’s simply a way for me to know who might be interested when the doors open in early January.
If you feel led to join the Collective, you’ll have the option to do so before the public launch, (if your reading this prior to that time) and you’ll receive the Faith‑Fueling Routine Pack as a thank‑you for stepping forward early.
A Prayer for the Journey Ahead
Father, we thank You for the ordinary moments that become holy when we invite You in. Grant us the wisdom to see the small spaces where Your peace can dwell, and the courage to share that peace with the families we love. May any community we build together be a refuge of prayer, encouragement, and authentic sisterhood. In Jesus’ name, amen.
If you’d like to be added to the waiting list, simply reply to this post with “Count me in,” or click the link at the bottom of the page. I’ll add your name, and you’ll hear from me soon with a tiny, gratitude‑filled audio to start your day.
Thank you for reading, for praying, and for being the kind of mother who seeks God’s calm amid the beautiful mess of family life. I’m looking forward to walking this next season with you—whether that means sharing a quick tip, in our free Facebook group or sitting together in a deeper, six‑week journey.
With love and gratitude,
Dawn Baggett
Post‑Adoption Mom Coach | Founder, The Second Mom Collective
Post‑Adoption Mom Coach | Founder, The Second Mom Collective
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